The founder of real men real style. Today, i'm going to be giving you five tips on how to improve the way you speak. If you haven't already, please subscribe to my youtube channel. By doing that, these videos will come right to you. In addition, if you like this, if you find it useful, i would appreciate it if you would like it down below. And last but not least, if you want to learn more about men's style, not so much speaking but i focus mostly on style, i've got a freee-book down there, 47 pages. It's great. In addition, a premium e-book, 600 pages, 400 images, 14 hours of audio. I really find that when someone purchases the e-book, they take action. Guys, if anything, watching my videos, it's great reading my articles even better, but you really need to take action on this stuff if you want to improve your life. Having said that, this is a response to a question i saw on the comments awhile back. Someone was asking me, "how do you speak the way you do? You come across as really natural. It seems like you were born that way. " i really want to throw that fallacy right out the window. Guys, i practice a lot. If you go back to my earlier videos, i don't think they were that great. I was talking really slow and i've since, i think, become much better in front of the camera, but even before that, for years, i have been trying to improve the way i speak in front of groups and audiences because i feel it's really important. I think in high school, i remember reading something about how public speaking is the number one fear that people have. I was an introvert. I was really quiet in high school and it was hard for me to get up in front of a group and talk. Presentations were not my strong point, but i realized that if i was going to do well with what i wanted to do with my life, i need it to be able to get up in front of people and talk. I've frozen up in front of groups. It's happened in times. I really wish i could go back and help myself, but these are five tips i have found that have really helped me improve the way i present and i speak in front of others. 1. Practice there's a reason why i'm putting out so many videos. This is because i've really got big expectations for myself and where i want to take my channel, my business, and a lot of these videos i do, i look at it, is practicing for where i'm going. I know we've put out well over 200 videos, but what you haven't seen are the hundreds and hundreds of videos that haven't made it simply because i didn’t feel they were good enough. Let's just say i practice a lot and if you don't practice, if you think you can wing it, you're really setting yourself up for failure. There was a guy named pat flynn. I follow him over at smart passive income and i know he spoke recently at blog world. He went through the entire process of how he practiced again and again, sometimes in front of his -- i think he's got a two-year-old son now; that was the only audience. But when he got up there and he gave his speech at blog world,guess what? All of his presentation props failed. They couldn't get it going, but pat just looked forward and he kept going because he knew his presentation by heart. When you practice that much and that doesn’t even bother you, people are just going to be, "wow!"so practice, practice, practice. 2.
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